Book Pilgrimage

Honouring an internal ‘fluttering’ that began last year, I booked myself into 3 days at New Norcia Monastery’s guest house.

Before travelling by coach, I intuitively selected two books from my collection as the source material to ignite and explore an inner response whilst away. They were very different, but interestingly both pointed to the power of ‘Woman’ to nurture and guide in a point in time hijacked by power, authority, and control. Jean Shinoda Bolen likened our times to the myth of ‘The Fisher King’ and the desolation experienced when cut off from Self/Soul/Goddess. At Midlife, the invitation to reconnect makes its presence known. Turning inward ignites a small light in an individual and collective ‘dark night’.

Whilst staying true to the purpose of my time in New Norcia took deliberate decision making in regards to external distractions, I did allow myself one call at the end of the first day with someone I regard as ‘in my tribe’. We both respect the wisdom that resides within and are aware of the pitfalls of a ‘busy head’. We shared understanding that had surfaced in the week prior, got curious and allowed whatever moved through us to be voiced. The conversation was deeply nourishing and ignited the possibility of taking regular ‘book pilgrimages’ with other women, with time dedicated for us to read, write, and at the end of the day share personal ‘internal greening’.

The challenge is to stay true to the intention. Honouring an inner world of feelings, intuition, truth and ‘body’ knowing has become ‘forbidden fruit’. Finding venues that provide a suitable container (grail) can also be challenging. Solitude, quiet, comfort and care, in Nature are all needed to minimise external demands on our minds. I have booked myself into a different venue at the beginning of April but am sure to return to New Norcia for another 3 day immersion again during the year – maybe with other women?

2026 feels different. I have let go of some work that no longer feels right. I am changing in my expectations of myself and of work that I will continue to do. My care priorities are changing, including care for myself, the latter introducing some very new and different ways of being, and working. Time invested in external development will be limited while time set aside for inner communion will increase. Rituals to mark transitions in the day and seasons may be explored. I also feel prompted to explore our Indigenous six seasons and how climate change may be impacting. The year ahead feels right.

Beliefs Have A ‘Use By’ Date

At the time of writing this post, it is Australia Day. In years gone by, cars could be seen laden with Australian flags; dwellings acquired flagpoles; t-shirts were emblazoned with red, white and blue; and crowd faces looked like the set of Braveheart movie. Festivals were created, bands played, people drank (a lot) and fireworks lit up the sky.

Not so this year. Not one car with a flag sighted locally. Not one painted face. Much less merchandise. Australia Day celebrations silenced.

Not too long ago, voices of dissent to our entrenched interpretation of the day could be heard and different festivals emerged – ones grounded in truth telling about the invasion that usurped the traditional cultures and roles of our indigenous peoples. It soon became clear that the thinking and beliefs that framed our behaviours on 26 January had reached their ‘use by’ date. They no longer served the nation we wish to be.

The same process of change occurs in all of us – if we pay attention. Just as the beliefs underpinning Australia Day were a ‘narrow slice’ on the bigger picture, so too are the beliefs we create in our formative years about ourselves, our potentials, our abilities, our values …. the list goes on. They serve us for a while, but with time, discontent niggles within – a more mature voice wishes to be heard. If we pay attention, change can be peaceful. If not, the limits of our beliefs break and an eruption occurs. Relationships become untenable, health problems erupt, work loses its pizzazz, or we don’t like what we see in the mirror. The tiny, narrow, slivers of understanding we formed in times long gone by about the amazing power of life pulsating through everything, including ourselves, are revealed for the schtick they are.

Australian’s are embracing a different, fuller, more accurate perspective on their national day. Not everyone at the same time, but it is happening. The same occurs with our understanding of ourselves. If we slow down and listen to the niggles, exploring their content, accuracy and relevance to our current contexts, we can wake up to the expiry of the ‘use by’ date of the beliefs that drive us behind the scenes, and be open to what comes next. For change comes from within. The new thoughts that are emerging for our celebrations of this nation come from within individuals, and like a ripple effect, increasingly resonate with those who are open to listening. Deep within, we are all ‘truth seekers’ and in our own lives, the voice of fresh truth also resonates – if we listen.

Change is wired in to the flow of life, including through ourselves. Fresh thought in the form of impulses or words powers every tendril of innovation, creativity and evolution. Downfalls occur when that ‘nudge’ is ignored.

Have you listened to the niggles in the back of your mind? Do you give yourself permission to sit down and explore them through a journal? What fears get in the way? What unfounded fears about your Self sit below them? What changes would you be liberated to embrace and manifest if, like a 2021 bottle of sweet chilli sauce, you threw your beliefs that have passed their expiry date in the bin!